Printed Weddings

Stage 1 of 4

Getting engaged

Who buys what, what it costs, and what to write in the card, before a date is even set.

Two empty coupe glasses, an open empty ring box and blank cards on a kitchen table.

An engagement is the one milestone with no settled rulebook, which is why people search for one. What follows is what is actually customary in the UK, in the order it tends to come up. None of it obliges you to buy a thing.

The reading, in order

Buying for a newly engaged couple?

And after that

The stage that follows this one is the wedding: The etiquette, the spend, and the words: what a guest is actually expected to do.

Written by Craig Fearn, Printed Weddings.