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Which anniversary is it?

Enter how many years they have been married and get the British material, the name where the year has one, and whether it qualifies for a message from the King. Nothing to sign up for, and nothing invented where the list is silent.

An open wooden card drawer with blank cards, beside an ordered row of anniversary material samples.

Where this list is silent, the tool says so instead of filling the gap.

25 of the years on this list carry a material. Materials from Debrett's “British Wedding Anniversaries”; royal message rule quoted from GOV.UK.

Why some years come back empty

Debrett's covers each of the first fifteen years, then moves in fives, so plenty of years in between have no British material attached. An empty result isn't a gap in this tool. It's the list.

The strangest of those blanks is the 65th. It carries no material, yet it's a year the palace does write to couples for. The diamond wedding page sets that rule out properly. Two traditions, never squared with each other.

You'll find the blank years filled in elsewhere, borrowed from newer or American lists, and there's nothing wrong with using one. Don't assume a "wax" eighteenth has any British history behind it.

A wooden mantel clock with a plain face beside a gilt-rimmed china cup and saucer on a shelf.

Traditional and modern are two different lists

Where we've confirmed a different modern value, the tool shows it alongside. The clearest case is year thirty: pearl by British tradition, diamond by the newer one. If no modern value appears, we haven't verified one. That isn't the same as the two lists agreeing.

That newer list came out of a jewellers' trade body in the 1930s, which is worth holding in mind when its answer keeps turning out to be jewellery. Where the modern list came from follows the attribution back as far as it goes.

The whole list in one place

If you would rather read every year at once, with the sources and the disagreements set out, see the UK wedding anniversary list.

Read the full list

Every material comes from Debrett's British list. To read the whole list at once, with the disagreements set out, see the UK wedding anniversary list; what the traditional symbols mean covers where the materials came from in the first place.

Three named years qualify for a card from the King: the diamond wedding at sixty, the sixty-fifth and the seventieth, plus every year after the seventieth. Silver at twenty-five and gold at fifty do not. When to apply for a royal anniversary message sets out the application windows and which wedding years qualify.

A few more answers

Which wedding anniversary is 25 years?
The silver wedding. Silver is what Debrett's British list gives for year 25, and it is the value this tool returns.
Why does this tool give no material for some years?
Because Debrett's British list gives none. It covers years one to fifteen, then only the fives, so plenty of years carry nothing at all, and the 65th is a real blank even though it qualifies for a royal message. Materials quoted elsewhere for those years are borrowed from newer or American lists.
Which anniversaries get a card from the King?
Three named years: the diamond wedding at 60, the 65th and the 70th, plus every year after the 70th. Look up any year above and the tool will tell you whether it qualifies. Silver at 25 and gold at 50 do not.
Objects for the early anniversary years - folded paper, cotton thread, a leather tag and a wooden bowl - on linenRead nextAnniversary gifts by yearA gift idea for every milestone year, in one pictured table: the traditional UK material and a present that fits it. Below the table, what each material means and a keepsake idea for each year.